Friday, August 18, 2006

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Chopper - parents and children are the victims

Venerdì 18 Agosto 2006







The opinion of the psychologist Salvatore Nigro
"The new law on custody parents more maturity"

last few months has been in the attic the old law, joint custody, and would have shared, even for the legal struggles of so many parents excluded from equitable management of children after a marriage gone to hell . "There is no more a custodial parent and a parent with visitation rights - Parlato said Germano, a psychologist and psychotherapist ULSS 6 of Vicenza, head of the provincial service adoptions - but the children are assigned to both, and only as an exception, one of them. In case of separation, in fact, the minor child has the right to maintain a balanced relationship with each of them and continued to receive care, education and instruction from both. Parents are equated with obligations and similar functions. The new law establishes the principle that both parents, and that is that mother and father can leave, separation or remarriage, but they are both still parents and their children, with the same rights and same obligations. " - What are the strengths, such as "critical" of the new law?
- And if the couple still can not find an agreement, or excessive litigation, the law provides for what?
"The intervention of the court. Until now, the custodial parent, over eighty percent of cases, was the mother. It is not about forcing parents to get along, but to implement those choices civilians for the sake of their children. Only the most important decisions are taken jointly, while the rest will be for the court to assess whether the existing conflict in the couple makes a real joint exercise of parental authority, or whether it is better to assign different tasks to parents than children, both from the educational point of view and economically. The changes will also consider the process of food and no longer only the non-custodial parent have to provide for the maintenance of children, but both former spouses will be asked to contribute according to their availability. " 		"After separation, the spouses should never forget to be parents yet and should therefore find a quick agreement on the many problems that arise in raising children, the children quickly because times are not compatible with the constraints of ordinary justice. Neither parent should prevail over the other. The implicit conception of the law provides an "optimistic view" of the separation of parents can make rational decisions, especially in cases where the wound of separation is still open and the degree of conflict is still high. It's a little 'illusion to think that suddenly becomes able to do those who have not been able to decide before the separation. Appears deficient, finally, the use of family mediation. The joint custody can work only if chosen and wanted by both parents. " - What do we say to parents who are separating?

'To avoid trauma to the child during the separation is important that the spouses are able to differentiate problems related to the conflict of the couple from those related to its role as a parent. It is primarily to avoid putting the other spouse in a bad light in the eyes of children who are entitled to maintain a positive relationship with both parents. The important thing is that divorce or separation never coincides with the end of the historical relationship, that is, with the final rupture because it is still more parents of children who were raised together. "








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